Is it by FORCE????

Okay, so there is this person whom i dont know but is in Malaysia and is a Ugandan just like me. when he added me as a friend on Facebook, i took time to look at the mutual friends we shared then in my mind I thought, maybe he knows me but i dont know him. So anyways, i accepted the friend request.

One day i was chatting with my long lost best friend on Fasebook. i dint really feel like chatting with any other person at the time but since i was online, many people kept buzzing me inclusive of this guy who calls himself "Esma Deric". u know when u buzz at someone and they dont reply, it means they are either not at the computer or they are busy.

When I dint answer this guy, he threatened to delete me from his friend list. Ati “I can’t be friends with you without chatting”. I saw it at that time but I was really tired so I just left it alone. He went ahead and deleted me from his list. I dint realize how funny it was till I woke up in the morning and I looked at it. I burst out in Laughter....lol. So I decided to see who exactly this was. I looked at his picture but I really dint know him. So I decided to write him a message. I just copied his lil messages and the threat and pasted them back to him, then I was like, serious???

The guy got mobb pissed and he wrote back this message telling me how am such a bitch, ati I should continue doing that if it’s what makes me sleep at night. LOL....that really caught me by surprise and it dint end there. I dint reply the 1st msg and then he wrote again and said, "wat kind of maggot are you, nonsense". Again I was surprised but kept quiet. then he sent another message that said" but let me ask if trying to chat with u nicely wud hv hurt u????? bt y r u ladies so ahrd to understnd? all i wanted was a simple chat wth bt u hv turned it into a murder investigation, come on" this one I replied and said "well it you who turned everything into such a big deal..." 

He said I should please save him the nonsense and not reply yet I had just written an apologetic msg right before I saw the no nonsense msg so I dint send it. 

The following day, I just told him he is such a LOOSER and below is the whole conversation.

Maryam 16 July at 00:46

u r such a LOOSER!

he 16 July at 00:50 Report

yo birth was such a waste of time , please i am going to block u now if u r dnt leave my inbox

Maryam 16 July at 00:55

go ahead break a leg...i pity anybody who ever met you. skunk! block me and be happy. LOOSER!

he 16 July at 02:44 Report

i pity yo mum cz she took 9 months of her life to go to the toilet and shit u out

This was the last of the conversation and i just got tired ...lol. i have lots of things to do so let me let him be since he cant let me be. 

The next day i decided to just let it slide and asked him if was possible to make peace. he sent a friend request again then told me that,"
he 17 July at 02:25

i wana chat with u a little cud u accept the request n delete me later on, jst a little"

so i accepted the request and now we r friends...it was that simple ryt from the start but am glad we r friends.

LOLOLOLOLOL, some people are just Blessed! We should say

Great lesson learnt though!

Crossroads

Life is full of 'crossroads', a word that has been described as a crucial point at which a decision must be made. When in such a dilemma, we are pretty good at denying the fact that we can't make our own decisions at times. In fact, several times! Other times we cover up the lack of solutions with using an easy way out of running away from the problems. 

In minor cases, some manage to get away with the wrong decisions they made but somewhere, somehow the wrong done in the past always catches up with today. What you did yesterday is a simple justification of who u r today. 

Sometimes making a mistake is inevitable. The good news is we can learn from it and the bad news is, it can haunt us for the rest of future. Am not saying it aint okay to make mistakes, am just saying that make a worthy mistake.

I have a friend who is in a committed relationship despite the ups and downs in it. She always wondered why people cheat in relationships so one day she decided to try it out. She went out there searching but fortunately of should we call it unfortunate, she dint find any one worthy. So her mission daint work.

"On the contrary, there are no crossroads in our lives. If we control the variables in our lives, we choose which road to  take hence life becomes a Highway not a crossroad. The world does not control us but we control it..."_K.K

So is your life a highway or are caught up in crossroads? Choose you path.

Try Extra-Ordinary

There are facts in our lives that are undeniably true but embarrassing to utter. This makes us very sensitive about certain small things in life. I do not know why but when you hear something bad about someone u care about, be it true or false, the little truth to it, is what hurts most. We shut it down in many ways by calling it rumors and on a more sincere side, it is called HUMAN NATURE. 

Have u ever looked back in the years and drawn a clear analysis of your life? For many reasons, many of us don't get the time to analyze our lives. In my opinion, this is one of the main causes of sadness in the world. If only you took time off and did things that actually made you happy then you would know more about yourself. 

How happy a man is, is not how much he has but how much he needs. 

At many stages of life, we are surprised by what we can do once we try it. What am trying to say is, stop doing things according to everyone, just do things according to YOU! Who said a woman should be the cook in her husband's house, who said a man can't plate hair. To become somebody, u need to go out of your way and do something you have never done for extra-ordinary results. Instead of looking to as far as where u will be in the next 10 years, look at where u now and ask yourself, do i wanna be in this same place in the next two ours. Work in minutes and seconds; forget the days and weeks and years. Besides a year starts with just 1 second 12:01:01, the fireworks is out for the New Year celebrants. 

Knowing who you are is also very important in life. Many of us don't know who we are. We only stop at what we can and cant do. it is almost impossible to describe yourself in one word because when asked who u r, your name, country of origin etc is what comes to mind 1st. currently, am working on a project of learning more and more about myself. Sometimes its adventure that helps you know yourself. Sometimes you have to get lost in order to find yourself. Each and every in this world is writing their history according to what they do. This is something we can never run away from. So if u wanna be a hero, its high time u started your heroic projects.

Stop saying 'in the future' because, now is the future of yesterday, what have you done??? What will you be remembered for if you died in the next minute??? Do u have enough deeds to keep you in Heaven??? 

Should I Go Or Should I Stay?

When the journey started, about 16-17years ago, it was exciting and fun but along the way it brunched off into this pressure of reading books. it seemed to become harder by the year. by the end of primary school, the love for books is still well-secured because many look forward to the life in high school. at that age, we have watched so many high-school movies and that what makes us excited about high-school. We completely dis-consider the fact that those actresses and actors on TV are seniors in the so-called high schools and that its just another 'movie'

Excited to join high school, the shopping, the thought of staying away from home, the joy of beginning a new journey in your life

On day 1, it all seems fun only that you have already been disappointed by the look of the boarding house. Day 2, you start classes and you have a gazillion subjects to attend to, Maths, English, Chemistry, Biology, physics, history, French, German, Arabic, literature, computer science, geography, and many more. Well by the time I joined high school, I had all these and others which i really cant remember. Another disappointment!

You return to your dormitory and find your suitcase open, you locker broken and more than half of you property gone. Another disappointment! That doesn't kill, you still put yourself together and go to class the next day. a few months down the road, now you have made some friends, some of which are seniors so you are protected from being bullied. That’s if you are lucky. If you are not, you might be asked to blow off a florescent tube from around 9pm to 11pm when its time for lights out. 

A few years down the road, you are a senior, now it’s your turn to do the bullying. In a few days, high school is over, just when it was coming close to your Gossip Girl Fantasy.

You join university after a very long holiday. And here, you are supposed to act grown up and take good care of yourself because no one is responsible for what you do. You are on your own so you are forced to grow up. you start budgeting you allowance as it comes in monthly, doing your own shopping, cooking ... at one point, you start   missing high-school, the noise, the dorms, the friends.

You still go ahead, telling yourself, this will be over soon. In your third year at Uni, you no longer want it to be over. This is the part where reality shoots in. the thought of job hunting, marriage... 

you miss being young again but you thank God for where you are because some didn't make it. I don't wish to be young today, because I would do very complicated mathematics. Instead of 2 + 6 = 8, today kids at final Primary Leaving Exams (PLE) are calculating X*6 + 7^2 = X + 8^2, Find X. I don't think it can get any worse. On top of that, the X you are asking me to find is on paper, right there...lol

The bottom line is,

                                                   I want it to be over,

                                                   But I don't want it to be over.

                                                   I want to go,

                                                   But I don’t want to go

                                                   I miss it,

                                                   But I don’t miss it.                                                                                                 IT'S COMPLICATED!

Am I alone on this, or does it happen to us all????

Hilarious...

Kenyatta, Moi and Kibaki were lost in the forest and were captured by cannibals.

The cannibal king told the prisoners that they could live if they pass a trial. The first step of trial was to go to the forest and get ten pieces of the same kind of fruit. So all three men went separate ways to gather fruits.

Kenyatta came back and said to the king, "I brought 10 apples".

The king then explained the trail to him, "you have to shove (swallow) the 10fruits  without any expression on your face or you will be eaten".

o       The first apple went in …………….

o       But on the second one he winced in pain.

o        So he was killed.

Moi arrived and showed the king ten berries. When the king explained the trial to him.

o       he thought that this should be easy

o       1…....2…..…3…….4…..5……...6.……7…..8…….9

o       and on the tenth berry he burst out in laughter and was killed.

Moi and Kenyatta met in heaven and Kenyatta asked Moi, "why did you laugh, you almost got away with it?"

Moi replied, "I couldn't help it, I saw Kibaki coming with pineapples".Have a fruitful day!!!!!

LETTING GO...

There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.


People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.. You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something.. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye.. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ........

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth......

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you.

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge.....

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction... ..

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents

LET IT GO!!!

If you! u have a bad attitude.... ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...... .

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him.......... .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship. ....

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves.. ....

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed ............

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying 'take your hands off of it,' then you need to.......

LET IT GO!!!

'The Battle is the Lord's!'

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