Is it by FORCE????

Okay, so there is this person whom i dont know but is in Malaysia and is a Ugandan just like me. when he added me as a friend on Facebook, i took time to look at the mutual friends we shared then in my mind I thought, maybe he knows me but i dont know him. So anyways, i accepted the friend request.

One day i was chatting with my long lost best friend on Fasebook. i dint really feel like chatting with any other person at the time but since i was online, many people kept buzzing me inclusive of this guy who calls himself "Esma Deric". u know when u buzz at someone and they dont reply, it means they are either not at the computer or they are busy.

When I dint answer this guy, he threatened to delete me from his friend list. Ati “I can’t be friends with you without chatting”. I saw it at that time but I was really tired so I just left it alone. He went ahead and deleted me from his list. I dint realize how funny it was till I woke up in the morning and I looked at it. I burst out in Laughter....lol. So I decided to see who exactly this was. I looked at his picture but I really dint know him. So I decided to write him a message. I just copied his lil messages and the threat and pasted them back to him, then I was like, serious???

The guy got mobb pissed and he wrote back this message telling me how am such a bitch, ati I should continue doing that if it’s what makes me sleep at night. LOL....that really caught me by surprise and it dint end there. I dint reply the 1st msg and then he wrote again and said, "wat kind of maggot are you, nonsense". Again I was surprised but kept quiet. then he sent another message that said" but let me ask if trying to chat with u nicely wud hv hurt u????? bt y r u ladies so ahrd to understnd? all i wanted was a simple chat wth bt u hv turned it into a murder investigation, come on" this one I replied and said "well it you who turned everything into such a big deal..." 

He said I should please save him the nonsense and not reply yet I had just written an apologetic msg right before I saw the no nonsense msg so I dint send it. 

The following day, I just told him he is such a LOOSER and below is the whole conversation.

Maryam 16 July at 00:46

u r such a LOOSER!

he 16 July at 00:50 Report

yo birth was such a waste of time , please i am going to block u now if u r dnt leave my inbox

Maryam 16 July at 00:55

go ahead break a leg...i pity anybody who ever met you. skunk! block me and be happy. LOOSER!

he 16 July at 02:44 Report

i pity yo mum cz she took 9 months of her life to go to the toilet and shit u out

This was the last of the conversation and i just got tired ...lol. i have lots of things to do so let me let him be since he cant let me be. 

The next day i decided to just let it slide and asked him if was possible to make peace. he sent a friend request again then told me that,"
he 17 July at 02:25

i wana chat with u a little cud u accept the request n delete me later on, jst a little"

so i accepted the request and now we r friends...it was that simple ryt from the start but am glad we r friends.

LOLOLOLOLOL, some people are just Blessed! We should say

Great lesson learnt though!

Crossroads

Life is full of 'crossroads', a word that has been described as a crucial point at which a decision must be made. When in such a dilemma, we are pretty good at denying the fact that we can't make our own decisions at times. In fact, several times! Other times we cover up the lack of solutions with using an easy way out of running away from the problems. 

In minor cases, some manage to get away with the wrong decisions they made but somewhere, somehow the wrong done in the past always catches up with today. What you did yesterday is a simple justification of who u r today. 

Sometimes making a mistake is inevitable. The good news is we can learn from it and the bad news is, it can haunt us for the rest of future. Am not saying it aint okay to make mistakes, am just saying that make a worthy mistake.

I have a friend who is in a committed relationship despite the ups and downs in it. She always wondered why people cheat in relationships so one day she decided to try it out. She went out there searching but fortunately of should we call it unfortunate, she dint find any one worthy. So her mission daint work.

"On the contrary, there are no crossroads in our lives. If we control the variables in our lives, we choose which road to  take hence life becomes a Highway not a crossroad. The world does not control us but we control it..."_K.K

So is your life a highway or are caught up in crossroads? Choose you path.

Try Extra-Ordinary

There are facts in our lives that are undeniably true but embarrassing to utter. This makes us very sensitive about certain small things in life. I do not know why but when you hear something bad about someone u care about, be it true or false, the little truth to it, is what hurts most. We shut it down in many ways by calling it rumors and on a more sincere side, it is called HUMAN NATURE. 

Have u ever looked back in the years and drawn a clear analysis of your life? For many reasons, many of us don't get the time to analyze our lives. In my opinion, this is one of the main causes of sadness in the world. If only you took time off and did things that actually made you happy then you would know more about yourself. 

How happy a man is, is not how much he has but how much he needs. 

At many stages of life, we are surprised by what we can do once we try it. What am trying to say is, stop doing things according to everyone, just do things according to YOU! Who said a woman should be the cook in her husband's house, who said a man can't plate hair. To become somebody, u need to go out of your way and do something you have never done for extra-ordinary results. Instead of looking to as far as where u will be in the next 10 years, look at where u now and ask yourself, do i wanna be in this same place in the next two ours. Work in minutes and seconds; forget the days and weeks and years. Besides a year starts with just 1 second 12:01:01, the fireworks is out for the New Year celebrants. 

Knowing who you are is also very important in life. Many of us don't know who we are. We only stop at what we can and cant do. it is almost impossible to describe yourself in one word because when asked who u r, your name, country of origin etc is what comes to mind 1st. currently, am working on a project of learning more and more about myself. Sometimes its adventure that helps you know yourself. Sometimes you have to get lost in order to find yourself. Each and every in this world is writing their history according to what they do. This is something we can never run away from. So if u wanna be a hero, its high time u started your heroic projects.

Stop saying 'in the future' because, now is the future of yesterday, what have you done??? What will you be remembered for if you died in the next minute??? Do u have enough deeds to keep you in Heaven???